Last post I explained a little bit about polyamory, and my feelings about being a poly Dom. One thing about being a Daddy is that your submissive or lil girl, naturally wants to be the center of your universe. This is both pleasing, as it means you are usually the center of hers, and also comes with a fair amount of responsibility. I fully accept this, and treat both my girls as they deserve, by providing my full attention to each when its “our” time.

I would venture that as in most poly relationships of similar dynamic, one partner may or may not be able to handle hearing about any aspects of your involvement with another. This is to be expected and I respect the fact that that type of discussion can lead to feelings of insecurity or even worse competition between the two. Never ever provide a situation where it you are comparing the accomplishments or failures of one partner against the other. This sort of behavior only breeds contempt and will eventually weaken the bond due to feelings of inadequacy.

As things stand now geography prevents the possibility of all three of us being the same place, but even if it were possible I would avoid this situation unless both girls decided it was something they would want to do. In the future I would love to have the girls in their own separate households, close enough that I am able to travel between the two sharing my time accordingly.

Some may wonder what about the emotion end of things? Well I can only say this, I love both my girls very much and for their own individual qualities. I could never think to compare their night and day personalites and quirks, I just know they are both deeply special to me.

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