Last post we explored the basics of what a Daddy Dom is, this time we will delve a bit deeper into the why and how. There are few related lifestyle dynamics which may or may not be a part of any individual or couples situation.

Age Play.
Most people new to kink in general make the assumption that role play based on perceived or actual age differences is part and parcel to being a Daddy Dominant. While yes there are those who delve into that side of kink, it is not the primary focus in La Familia Cambion. Don’t get me wrong Daddy likes a tennis skirt as much as the next guy but thats where it ends.

Psychological trauma:
Above all as a Daddy I see that my girls remain safe, and of course sane this means addressing issues from their past or present affecting their mental state. I am not a doctor, so this means giving them a shoulder to cry on and advice but beyond that I always recommend the help of professionals.

I have found that sometimes, especially within the Daddy dynamic our “fatherly” ways and the sexual nature of the relationship can open wounds of past trauma. It is up to the individual to decide what they can and cannot handle.

Boundaries
It doesn’t matter if you both enjoy electroshock stimulation, water sports, erotic asphyxiation or simple total power exchange before anyone gets all worked up boundaries MUST be set. It’s a very good idea to either complete an online or paper document outlining what is expected and forbidden within play.

Some say a safeword has no context in a Total Power Exchange relationships but I wholly disagree. The nature of our kink states that passions flare and if you are not within control of yourself or the situation things cease to be safe. A safe word or gesture gives her plenty of room in that play rape scene she begged you for to scream “No, Noooo, Stop” without you wondering if she still comfortable within play.

Self Control
I cannot stress enough the absolute need for self control for anyone who would call them selves a dominant. We, especially as men must reach a point where you know yourself and your reactions to stress, pleasure and other factors before you can be worthy of any individuals submission.

It’s of absolute importance that you seek to discipline and understand your shortcomings, she is giving you more than her body. Her mind must trust and believe in you or all will be lost.

Tags: control, howto, lifestyle by Don Cambion
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Daddy has rules….

Take #8 for example.

Open honesty is a must. In order for this to work you must be 100% open and honest about any and everything. This is not confined to telling the truth when asked. Intentional omissions are the same as dishonesty and will be punished as such. I am very understanding but will not tolerate having to interrogate you for any issue.

This has never been, and never will be merely a suggestion, let me rephrase that, I’m not fucking kidding.

When we seek to build trust we spend time believing in the infallibility of our little girls, of course this delusion doesn’t last long. Fortunately when these things happen, these examples of general human weakness, a learning opportunity also surfaces. So does the opportunity for redemption, the urge for release of guilt is undeniable.

Is it the understanding and forgiveness of Daddy they seek, or the release of those heavy feelings via the pain Daddy lovingly provides his disobedient pupil?

Maybe she simply seeks to give up more control, unsure of her own ability to self limit.

Maybe the bitch is just tugging at her collar.

Your. ass. is. mine.

Tags: bad girls by Don Cambion
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